healthy does not mean skinny

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As women we need to learn to love our bodies, love ourselves for the people we are, we should stop looking at skinny models and identify ourselves by them. Know your body and know your worth. Learn to embrace your size and who you are. But that does not mean be unhealthy, someone who loves themselves takes care of their bodies and their live, gym and a healthy life style is important to a womans well being. Learn to love your self and take care of your self. The perfect body is not a size 0 but it is a healthy size and size perfect for you.

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