Activating a Thought Leader In Me

i decided to write a poem today i decided to take my paper and pen and write a poem, to write what is in my mind and heart i decide to write a poem today in hopes that someone will read it and love it i decide to write a poem today i had something to get off my chest i decided to allow someone to enter my mind i decided to let someone to know me deeper i decided not to keep my heart and soul to my self i decided to allow someone into the deepest part of my thoughts i decide to write a poem today i decided i wanted to allow someone to know to know how i love God i decided not to be ashamed of my love for Jesus i decide to write a poem today i deiced to write a poem for Jesus i decided i had to much inside and i need to let it out i deiced that i can be myself today i decided to not be afraid of the world to allow negative comments to make me stronger i decided to allow the thick snow to be my blanket i decided to allow my fear to be my fuel i decided to write a...

So today I was going through my Facebook as usual, I happen to see a page with beautiful plus size girls. Fashion is not only for small or skinny girls, it is for everyone, they look so good even better then most skinny models, I LOVE IT! So I thought why not share it on my blog, they are just so gorge.  I need to get me some clothes, feel like I've been wearing the same things over and over. Ya that is what happens when you have to take one suitcase only weighing 23kg's! I really don't get AA, what the hell do they think we can carry in one suitcase, honestly that's just clothes for two weeks and now I have to try and spread them out for five months.  Hey I'm the queen of cheap, seems like I will be the queen of recycling as well. I guess you cant have it all, nah I take that back, hell yha you can, just recycled! LOL Any way, here are the most beautiful big girls I have seen. With a quote from Mika "Big girls you are beautiful"..... All...

 Lack of political knowledge   Anytime you think of politics, you think old and boring; this is the concept of many young people when it comes to politics. There seems to be such a gap in political knowledge and interest with in the state of The Republic of South Africa. The youth who should be the biggest players in the political sphere of South Africa have chosen to take a back seat.   The lack of interest vs. the lack of Knowledge.   I find this to be a very interesting topic. There are many young people who are given the opportunity to educate themselves politically, but the lack of interest is one of the biggest reason that the country is in the state that it is in right now. When we look at the leaders of the   ANCYL we are introduced to people who have taken the name of the SA youth and misinterpreted it, they have no understanding of the new age freedom, that we as the youth have had the privilege of enjoying. I am not looking at the demograp...

light skin vs. dark skin. I recently read an article by Khaya Dlanga, on his blog about light skin and dark skin with the black culture. How the lighter skinned blacks get better treatment within society as a whole. How the lighter skinned blacks are held in more higher esteem then the darker girl. As someone who believes in the beauty of all woman, i wanted to explore this topic on my own. it is a topic that has been covered over and over. So I  juxtaposed a number of articles together to find out more about what is being said about this topic and the reaction of different people within the black community and within our own culture.     It is only normal the first article would be that of Khaya Dlanga, who got me interested on the topic.   The lightness of being light skinned*   "This is an age-old discussion that has gone on in the black community for some time now. Light-skinned people are automatically considered beautiful simpl...

www.plus-size-tall.com  As women we need to learn to love our bodies, love ourselves for the people we are, we should stop looking at skinny models and identify ourselves by them. Know your body and know your worth. Learn to embrace your size and who you are. But that does not mean be unhealthy, someone who loves themselves takes care of their bodies and their live, gym and a healthy life style is important to a womans well being. Learn to love your self and take care of your self. The perfect body is not a size 0 but it is a healthy size and size perfect for you.

o ne of the most difficult things to do is forgive, forgiving those who hurt us and most difficult forgiving ourselves. We are human, pain is part of life, but when pain is inflicted by someone or is causes by ourselves we find it hard to let go, to forgive. When you forgive you not just letting go of the hold you have over the person, but you let go of the hold the person has over you. Most times the person who hurts you, doesn't even care or acknowledge your exist, they move on with their lives like nothing ever happened, while you can not sleep, thinking about the person, thinking about the incident. There are two powers that have a hold of you, the power of ther person who hurt you and the incident its self. You need to let go, forgive and move forward. You will be stuck in one place in your life, not being able to reach your full potential because this is eating you inside. One of biggest problems comes when you forgive and don't forget, there is a reason when God forgi...